What is Escorting?

Step into the world of intrigue that is Scarlet’s Secrets, a captivating series where I strip away misconceptions to unveil the truth behind a world brimming with exploration. Come with me as I shed light on what escorting truly entails, because let's be real, it sure as hell ain't Hollywood's version we're about to discover.

Let's address the elephant in the room: escorting is indeed sex work. But before you paint a picture of a shadowy underworld, let me paint you a different one. Imagine a vibrant community, a tapestry woven with diverse threads—mothers, students, professionals—each with their unique story, yet all united in their choice to embrace escorting.  This line of work is in fact legal in New Zealand and has been for 21 years now. It's not about desperation; it's about empowerment, exploration, and yes, financial liberation. For many, it's the key to unlocking that elusive work-life balance we all crave. It's time to debunk the misconceptions and view escorting for what it truly is—a job like any other.

Why does the stigma persist? Perhaps because sensational tales tend to overshadow reality.

But let me tell you, my journey into escorting was nothing like what you see on tv. Picture a struggling student, juggling multiple jobs, unaware of the potential awaiting her in the world of escorting. That was me. Not only was I juggling multiple jobs to stay afloat, but I had also dabbled briefly in the hookup culture scene, only to find myself in unsafe and uncomfortable situations. It was then that I thought, "Why not explore my sensuality in a safe environment where I get paid for it?". 

Stepping into this industry for the first time was nerve-wracking, but what awaited me was anything but intimidating. That agency was Auckland waitresses, a haven of professionalism, warmth, and acceptance. And my first client? Far from the stereotype I had conjured in my mind. Instead, I found great company, stimulating conversation, and the beginning of a lucrative journey. 

The essence of a fulfilling escorting experience lies in finding the right working environment for you. A reputable agency should champion "your body, your boundaries," prioritising the safety and well-being of its workers. Escorting is not about exploitation; it's about creating a space where individuals can thrive both personally and professionally. 

So let's talk numbers. Girls in this industry are regularly pocketing upwards of $1000 a day. Yes, you heard that right.

Beyond the financial freedom, escorting offers an opportunity to forge friendships that defy expectations. Contrary to the superficial, standoffish image I once held, the women I've met in this industry have become some of my dearest friends. They're not just smart and driven; they're empathetic, open-minded, and kind-hearted souls who have enriched my life in ways I never imagined. But here's the deal—escorting isn't just about punching the clock; it's a tool in your toolbox to make things happen. Whether it's funding your studies, travelling the world, or pivoting towards new career paths, escorting gives you the financial freedom to turn those dreams into plans.

As we embark on this journey through Scarlet's Secrets, let's challenge the Hollywood narrative. Escorting isn't a dark underworld—it's a tapestry of diverse stories, financial empowerment, and supportive communities.